Sonoma Wine Country Suggestions: I - Lodging

Some thoughts from someone who lives in Marin and spends a lot of time in the wine country:

1) Go for Sonoma over Napa -- not as built up and touristy, more peaceful and romantic, fewer tasting fees (one of the "innovations" we've seen in the last 25 years since I first visited)

2a) The best luxury/spa hotel is the Sonoma Mission Inn, which is a Fairmont hotel and may have the best spa in all of the extended Bay Area. It is hard to argue with either the Wine Country suites or Mission suites. Keep in mind that this is a 'resort' hotel, so there is nothing of interest in walking distance. The food at their Sante restaurant is very good.

2b) For a more European and modern hotel, also luxurious and right near one of the nicer wine country towns, check out the Hotel Healdsburg. Their Dry Creek Kitchen restaurant can be highly recommended. I might give this place a slight nod over the Sonoma Mission Inn, but my wife and most other wives who have tried both would vote for SMI and their spa.

2c) Can't decide on Napa vs. Sonoma or want to do both? You can hedge your bets by staying at the Carneros Inn, which is technically in Napa, but is really halfway between the destination points in either county. This luxury inn is only a year or so old and has been getting rave reviews. It is a more rustic location and is also a good choice if you want to feel away from the (nearby) hustle and bustle.